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When I watched FangFei out of elevated, FangFei mom couldn't wait to burst in, at this moment, I noticed a detail, FangFei look back the mother's eyes are no longer apparent disgust, but had a faint sadness.

Look at me draw family relationships charts, FangFei mom's tears suddenly burst out of the. A dominated husband, family's centre of gravity obviously deviations, dislocation, relationship between husband and wife of the connection between the pressure to be passed on to children, cause a lot of problems have arisen. As the family therapy in the theory of view says, "children's symptoms are often family problems, couples problem projections, their problems appeared only to the root of the whole family is solved."

At present, China youth of psychological problems to have a broad class of family relationships, which originated from poor are often the result of connubiality caused by abnormal. Chinese parents often compare conventional implicative, when husband-and-wife relationship problems, they are too shy to talk about, so will more so-called affection onto their children, and children do not appreciate, they would make various of this abnormal reaction, some such as FangFei vehemently against break, and some are passive acceptance, depressive self, but every child can feel mood heavy, thus produce larger psychological problems, affect schooling, in all walks of life. Can say, exactly is these deformities love oppression children made many relatives can't understand bad behavior.

Later, I for FangFei mother arranged a phase of psychological counseling, and through FangFei coordination her father involved in family therapy. When the family put some words of memory long accumulation pouring out, when the quarrel quietly again gently over, I see everybody's face is no longer the haze, a lot more smile knowingly-and.

The last time consulting end, FangFei side took mama's hand, on I say, "mum wasn't hateful, actually, she needs me so much help. But I don't know how to do a daughter, teacher, thank you for helping us home. At the same time, I also determines the, must study hard and enter the university to study psychology, like you, better to help others!"